The key to growth: you

#byBéka The key to growth in other words is actually accepting the dark side of the future and most importantly, accepting the power you have over it. What I mean is that death cares little for timing, perceptions and “good people”. Life is short, horribly and chaotically short. Thus, this ugly truth should be enough… Continue reading The key to growth: you

People inspire you or they drain you – pick wisely!

Until men and women start having honest conversations about who they are, what they truly feel and fear, what demons they battle with, where they lack and what they want. Love will continue to be a temporary emotion within a lot of your relationships.  You are not responsible for the way people feel. #byBéka Let’s… Continue reading People inspire you or they drain you – pick wisely!

How to let go of Yesterday

#ByBéka You can’t reach for anything new if your hands are still full of yesterday’s clutter - Louise Smith Life isn’t easy! As the days, months and years go by, you may find that your purpose becomes more complicated and less clear. What am I supposed to do? Who am I supposed to be? So… Continue reading How to let go of Yesterday

Devil’s advocate: inspiring souls or ideal branded Icons?

 #ByBéka In recent weeks I have come to think of inspiring people,  the role of “iconic” characters or historical figures that could be the source of my inspiration. I have asked around me “who inspires you and who’s your icon?”. I have read blogs and Pinterest quotes and watched videos about the subject, just to… Continue reading Devil’s advocate: inspiring souls or ideal branded Icons?

The truth behind the art of dreaming bigger

If your dreams don't scare you, it's because they are too small- Richard Branson  #byBéka Success in your life can be defined as the pursuit of happiness and the progressive realization of worthy goals.  It can be achieved when you try your best in all aspects of your life,  even if that doesn’t lead to… Continue reading The truth behind the art of dreaming bigger

Kissing booth exposé – a lesson behind all the fluff

 #byBéka It’s unbelievably hard to describe how “The Kissing Booth” manages to be so poorly written, yet so pleasant to watch, like I did so many times. The movie is based on Beth Reekles’ novel, discovered originally by a young audience on Wattpad (a fanfiction online platform). Initially, the book illustrates pre-teen energy in their… Continue reading Kissing booth exposé – a lesson behind all the fluff

Authenticity: the courage to be yourself

Life teaches, love reveals Authenticity is the courage to be yourself I think life really comes down to either follow your heart or live in fear. Your heart speaks through your feelings while your fear shouts through others’ feelings and judgements. Yes, yes it is. I wanted to talk about this with you guys because… Continue reading Authenticity: the courage to be yourself

Loving the skin you are in

#byBeka  “I love you, but I love me more” Samantha Jones Dear universe, thank you for everything in my life. Thank you for the family and the friends surrounding me. Thank you for the clothes, the food and the rooftop over my head at night. Most importantly thank you for me, for my body, my… Continue reading Loving the skin you are in

How to feel at your best wherein uncertainty:

Quiet life: sitting on the sofa with my tea, my partner and my blanket, tapping away my thoughts and projects on my computer. That really is my happy place- OR NOT. I wish I could say so, but here is a better version of the truth while we have no other choice but to stay… Continue reading How to feel at your best wherein uncertainty: