Why settle for less when you can have more ?

A life in which you settle is far scarier than one in which a person pursues their dreams and fails. Let me start by saying that you need to become aware of how important it is to be mindful of what you focus on. It’s important to control your attention because it influences your thoughts… Continue reading Why settle for less when you can have more ?

The art of wit – a practical guide to being witty

I have always admired witty people, for as long as I could remember, quick thinking and smart talking has been a skill combination I was dying to master. One could always dream I pertually told myself as I am naturally awfully shy and do not speak much, but for the past years, I have put… Continue reading The art of wit – a practical guide to being witty

The only way to strive for excellence

Hello          &              welcome,  There are many texts about excellence on this platform, many more about elegance, and so many about success in each sphere of your life, but I was once asked what to me was the single most important to reach all of these and the only answer that would be adequate is and… Continue reading The only way to strive for excellence

Forget excellence, pursue success instead

“Something deep in the human heart breaks at the thought of a life of mediocrity.” ― C. S. Lewis  I believe we should think less about excellence and more about personal fulfillment — a sense of achievement that’s balanced by wellness. Wellness in your body, mind, and soul. I also think that by striving for… Continue reading Forget excellence, pursue success instead

The art of making yourself a priority

“Ask, believe, receive and see yourself grow as you go” The world isn’t withholding your future from you. The universe doesn’t delay. There are no purgatories in life, no waiting periods, no delay, no time to wait for some rescue. There is no eureka moment waiting on the sidelines or a plan B organized for… Continue reading The art of making yourself a priority

How to be unforgettable

How do you remember me, I asked nervously for his answer, please tell me you only kept happy memories. I had not talked to him in almost a year, I was not the love of his life and he was not mine, but I believed we could be friends if we tried, I was willing… Continue reading How to be unforgettable

A Fine Lesson About Productivity

“We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit.” - not aristote but someone wise. by #Béka So why, if the way forward is so straight, do we insist on taking detours? It’s because doing the real thing is hard. Real things have risks. Real things are filled with… Continue reading A Fine Lesson About Productivity

Strive for Perfection

#yourboldestfriend Hello & Welcome, I’m very much all sugar and spice, everything nice, I am very proper, I never raise my voice, I dress in heels and I say please, thank you and bless you profusely, I am always kind and well-mannered. Even so behind my vanilla personality, my big doe eyes, my smile and… Continue reading Strive for Perfection

A year into COVID-19 – an introspection

 #byBéka Almost a year ago now, I published an article called : How to feel at your best wherein uncertainty.  As we were seeing the world around us changing and adapting to the rules related to coronavirus, which is still the case now, I shared with you all how we can make the best out… Continue reading A year into COVID-19 – an introspection

The key to growth: you

#byBéka The key to growth in other words is actually accepting the dark side of the future and most importantly, accepting the power you have over it. What I mean is that death cares little for timing, perceptions and “good people”. Life is short, horribly and chaotically short. Thus, this ugly truth should be enough… Continue reading The key to growth: you