The art of making yourself a priority

“Ask, believe, receive and see yourself grow as you go” The world isn’t withholding your future from you. The universe doesn’t delay. There are no purgatories in life, no waiting periods, no delay, no time to wait for some rescue. There is no eureka moment waiting on the sidelines or a plan B organized for… Continue reading The art of making yourself a priority

How to be unforgettable

How do you remember me, I asked nervously for his answer, please tell me you only kept happy memories. I had not talked to him in almost a year, I was not the love of his life and he was not mine, but I believed we could be friends if we tried, I was willing… Continue reading How to be unforgettable

A Fine Lesson About Productivity

“We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit.” - not aristote but someone wise. by #Béka So why, if the way forward is so straight, do we insist on taking detours? It’s because doing the real thing is hard. Real things have risks. Real things are filled with… Continue reading A Fine Lesson About Productivity

Strive for Perfection

#yourboldestfriend Hello & Welcome, I’m very much all sugar and spice, everything nice, I am very proper, I never raise my voice, I dress in heels and I say please, thank you and bless you profusely, I am always kind and well-mannered. Even so behind my vanilla personality, my big doe eyes, my smile and… Continue reading Strive for Perfection

A year into COVID-19 – an introspection

 #byBéka Almost a year ago now, I published an article called : How to feel at your best wherein uncertainty.  As we were seeing the world around us changing and adapting to the rules related to coronavirus, which is still the case now, I shared with you all how we can make the best out… Continue reading A year into COVID-19 – an introspection

The key to growth: you

#byBéka The key to growth in other words is actually accepting the dark side of the future and most importantly, accepting the power you have over it. What I mean is that death cares little for timing, perceptions and “good people”. Life is short, horribly and chaotically short. Thus, this ugly truth should be enough… Continue reading The key to growth: you

How to fall in love with yourself

To you, my friend, who’s love for themselves feels unavailable or unattainable, so much so that the question you might ask yourself is where on earth did the love I have for myself go? I wish I knew, I wish all of your traumas could have been healed by a magic wand and you would… Continue reading How to fall in love with yourself

People inspire you or they drain you – pick wisely!

Until men and women start having honest conversations about who they are, what they truly feel and fear, what demons they battle with, where they lack and what they want. Love will continue to be a temporary emotion within a lot of your relationships.  You are not responsible for the way people feel. #byBéka Let’s… Continue reading People inspire you or they drain you – pick wisely!

Why you won’t get flowers for Valentine’s Day

Hello & Welcome,  #fromyourboldestfriend  As February comes around the corner, so does Valentines Day, and I must say: I think red roses are very uninspired, perhaps if it were peonies I would be less inclined to be this opinionated about it, or maybe if I had someone to come shower me under an avalanche of… Continue reading Why you won’t get flowers for Valentine’s Day

Why you should never settle down with a partner

I’ve always been a 100% kind of girl, once I’m in, I’m all in. I guess that over the years I learnt how to bend without my whole world caving in, I’ve always shown infinite patience, with others especially - solid as a rock, I wouldn’t budge or bolt. Surprisingly enough, however, I’ve always sucked… Continue reading Why you should never settle down with a partner